Father's Day

"To you your father should be as a god." (1.1.47 A Midsummer Night's Dream by William Shakespeare)

my father, age 28

Today is Father's Day and there will be a constant stream of posts on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, videos on YouTube, and even dance routines on TicTok, all celebrating the great dads of the world.

This post is for those whose dads were less than stellar.

It's a celebration of sorts to show that even though our fathers fell far short of the claims that others will be making throughout the day--as their hero, loving Pop, first love, patient dad, funny patriarch, wise sage, best father ever--we can honor and pay tribute to ourselves for having grown up without a father's warm and protective embrace. It's made us strong and resilient and fearless. So for that, I say thank you, Dad.